When DD1 was born my DH gave me a beautiful gold and diamond pendant he had designed and had made for me in the shape of a mother, father and child which resembled the way a lot of sculpture from Africa is done. Symbolised obviously our new family of 3, but also was that style because DH and my first holiday together had been to Africa.

DD2 nothing except for a beautiful healthy baby. Didn't expect anything (was shocked at my present when DD1 was born) and was not in the least upset about not having anything.

Don't expect anything this time either.

I honestly don't see why you should get something - for me the whole idea of a healthy baby in my arms is the best present. Just more commercialism gone nuts IMO. I have joked to DH though that if he feels the need to buy me a push present this time no jewellery for me - I would much prefer a stokke and a thermomix.