Over at the inlaws last night, telling them our good news. When DH announced we were pregnant, my SIL got up immediately, hugged her brother (my hubbie) and virtually ran to the next room (couldnt look at me). I was shell shocked, as was DH. Rest of family tried to cover it up as to what was happening, but i knew all too well - she was in that room bawling. My MIL and FIL went in and consoled her. Me and hubby left at dinner table in shock. (my SIL is the only daughter, and ive often thought a bit spoilt by her older brother siblings and mother and father)...
She came out about 10 mins later (red eyes and snuffly nose) and acted like nothin had happened. Do i have a right to be upset?
I consider myself very close to my SIL - we were both pregnant with our first at the same time (my daughter is 3 months older). We often have 'coffee breaks' and talk baby stuff.....
I know she has talked about wanting more kids, and im sure that time will come (i know for a fact they're not trying cause she's smoking still).
Im really upset today. Feel like our friendship is false and fake. I need to confront her about it. I feel like ive done something wrong !!!!!!!!
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