I left a msg on her answering machine saying how hurt i was at her reaction. I got a phone call this arvo and she said she was sorry she was happy for me, but they have been trying for 4 months and nothing. Okay, i get that it may be a bit upsetting to hear someone is pregnant, but isnt there a little ounce of respect and thoughtfulness for me and my DH. She could not look at me when we told her.
I told my mother tonight, and mum said if one of her daughters acted like that she would have slapped them there and then.
Everyone has issues and hardships in life, how you deal with them and respond to them determines the kind of person you are . She was a good SIL and a good friend. I feel totally betrayed and hurt by her. An honest 'congrats' is all i expected. I didnt get it.