Hi Berni,

I'm 6ft tall. Before I had DS Iwas 72kg, and wasn't told there would be a prob with a HAB, but if thats what they told you then I guess they know what they're talking about. (As it turned out I was in triple figure at the end of my pregnancy so would have been OK for me by then)

You could either get a sling made for you (not sure where though and whether if would make much difference.)

I got a pram that converts to a stroller so not sure with that one either.

Regarding clother, the leglss bodysuits I would get no smaller than 000-00. It really depends whether your bub has just got long legs, or is long in the body as well -- I'm 6ft but have normal length legs and very long from bum to chest

It would only be all-in-one romeper with feet in them that might be too small, and even the you could cut off the foot part and sew a hem..

I use a boori change table/chest of drawers, its fine for me but not sure about your DF... My g/f has a table propped up on pavers for hers.
I have not seen any extra tall versions though.