So sorry for you loss hun. My pregnancy after my c/s was fine, I did everything and more than I did with my first and chasing a toddler makes it interesting! Mine are 17 mth apart adn I didn't worry about rupture at all during the pregnancy. Rupture occurs during labour (if at all and remember the % is the same as for a first time mother who is induced as it is for a VBACing mother). The one thing I wished I had been more careful of was lifting DD while pg. I had muscle separation with her and then after DS it was over 6cms wide and is still there now, so if I had my time over I would be more careful with sitting up in bed and lifting. At the time I felt fine though. I went 14 days overdue with DS waiting to have a VBAC that never eventuated but DS was 10lbs. If you are wanting to have a VBAC or are unsure, then do lots of reading to help you ease your mind and help you decide what is right for you. xoxo