With my first DS, both sides of the family were ok, but not too excited as we were not married, but they warmed up pretty quickly.
Number 2 DD, they were all like ,,,,,,,,you are are you?. But when I lost her at 30 weeks, we ALL cried for a long time.
Number 3 DS, they were all exstatic
Number 4DS the reaction I got from the inlaws was "you arent are you?, and my mother told DH to get a vasectomy.
So this time, we are waiting till around the 10-12 weeks and we arent looking foward to the reactions from them at all, In fact, we might have to move state lol. But we dont care, we have 3 boys, and so dearly want a little girl. This is our last chance, and have already organised with the GP that at the c-section i want a tubal ligation anyways,,,,,,but I know they wont be excited at all, but that will be their loss, not ours.