I guess everyone is different but DD1 was a booked c/s for being breech. We are TTC #2 and I will be doing everything in my power to avoid another c/s. It took me 6 months to fully recover and I am so jealous every time I hear of another friend having a successful VB and looking/feeling awesome. I hated every minute of my recovery as I felt paralysed every time I wanted to do something "normal".

An Epi is not going to be high on my list of things I want to happen but it definitely ranks higher than the c/s.