I get that pang now, I only have the one and said for a long time that I was only having one, but sometimes I wonder what life would be like with 2.

My biggest fear is that Jake would feel unloved or pushed to the side with all the time that needs to be spent looking after a new born, and I guess also that I wouldn't love the next one as much as I do Jake, I couldn't imagine loving another living creature as much as I do him.

Oops, sorry, didn't mean to hijack your thread with my problems, just wanted to let you know that I too have that pang, which does seem to be happening more often these days!