We just had our special little ceremony, the kids all wrote a note or drew a picture to baby, and read them out, then dan and i said our words of love, dan had bought 3 candles, 1 for me to light and 1 for him and grace and 1 for him and hunter.
We lite the candles and sat for a while, i think as i already knew what had happened i have already done my grieveing, but dan is taking this very hard, i have never seen him cry so much, so in a way i, glad that i have grieved, so i can help him.
Grace who is 7 is taking it very hard also, she has cried all after noon.
she made lots of little circles and drew love hearts on them and placed them in a box, when she feels sad or thinks about the baby, she will put a heart into a bag.
a little later i will type the letter and poem that grace has written, it is very beautiful and i would love to share it with u all, i have asked grace and she said it was ok.
I am so sorry that this has happened. Nothing I can say will make the pain any easier, but know that you have support and love from all of us here.
Sounds like a beautiful ceremony you had and a great way for the kids to say goodbye because it must be hard on them as well. What a lovely way to remember your precious little angel.
anila, i am already emotional today and your last couple of posts just tipped me over.
i am so very sorry for you loss. i think dan is a sweet man and i am glad he is there for you. lean on each other and grieve together.
remember that i don't live too far away and if you need company or a hug im here.
i can't wait to read graces poem.
This is graces poem..
Please remember that she is only 7 years old.
Dear baby in mums tummy, this is for you.
I love you baby
I wish i could see you baby
I love you up high
I love you down low
I love you where ever you go
I hope i will always remember you
Cute little guy
I hope you can hear the sounds of us crying
I really didnt want you to die
As soon as i hear that
Im sure to burst out and cry
I love you baby
I never wanted u to die
I love you baby
I never wanted u to die
I love you so much
Cute little thing
I love you baby
I never wanted you to die.
and this is graces letter to baby, as she was reading it, she placed her special circles with hearts into a bag.
Dear baby
I love you so much, I was looking forward to meeting you.
I hope you will always remember me.
I hope that you will look down on me and help me when ever i need help, and to help me be more smarter than what i am now.
I love you so much and every time i remember you i will put a circle or love hearts with some colours on them and put it in a bag.
I love you so much.
I wish you will look down on me when ever i need help.
I love you.
Love Grace.
ps. I was looking forward to seeing you.
I love my family very much.
Dans boss has given him tomorrow off work as well.
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i think dan is a sweet man and i am glad he is there for you. lean on each other and grieve together.
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