its just weird i mean, her last couple of pill cycles she would bleed a little bit during the sugar pills, then about a week later have a heavy bleed. that stopped for a cycle, and now late dec/early jan she had her bleed and it was quite heavy and started a day or 2 after taking the sugar pills. it varied from a redish, brown and even a pink in colour. but that was the heaviest it had been for like 2 or 3 cycles.

so what has worried us is that the last couple of times we had sex we hadnt used a condom to begin with, however, we would place one during the act, and at one time we actually withdrew and didnt use a condom (no actual ejaculation inside however). the thing is we were doing this for a year, she was on the pill and we would just use the withdrawal method and always escape, however we have become very paranoid and now use a condom as well, either to begin with or near the end of the act.

what has made me more secure that its not a pregnancy is that she had her withdrawal bleed 15 days ago, however after reading about ovulation and implantation etc this has freaked us out a bit.

BTW thank you for help its really hard to get good help these days, hopefully its nothing, she is very worried though.