thank you for your help! i do know of most people who are on the pill who just rely on the pill, to be honest in the beginning we did, without the internal ejaculation like most people. obviously we are still young and want to be prepared before we want to start a family hence why we use a condom and the pill as often as we can. The good thing with her is she takes it regularly, and has never missed a pill in over 3 years, except being 12 hours late a year ago. Her cycle is never regular and it has become a running joke, but it is still a bit of a worry, hopefully it is nothing like you said. and i am very thankful of your help. This place is really fantastic i only noticed it today! i wish there where more helpful places like this around