Great list TeniBear, You've obviously put alot of thought into it!
I was just wondering though, when I've been at my appointments, I've really only had time to ask a handful, so have had to spread them out over a few appointments... Will you have time to ask them all? if not, maybe work out half a dozen or so that you really want answered for each appointment (hard I know cause they're all very important)... OR, wouldn't all/most of these questions be covered in your hospital run pre-natal classes? (is that what they're called?) and you usually get a tour with the class.
Definately ask the question about changing hospitals at this appointment though if you don't want to go there, otherwise, if you manage to change hospitals, you may have to ask the same questions over again.
HTH and Good luck with your pregnancy and precious reward at the end!!
Oh and make sure they give you your list for what to pack for your stay and labour, but they will proberbly give you some kind of info pack/ book that should tell you this and some of your above q's.