Personally, I loved it...

But that is exactly what this is about. This stuff is not spoken about because we arent allowed to be anything but perfectly happy because we are growing a life. Yes, I know that. I loved that I was making a lovely little baby and would go through hell and back to have and for that baby - I went back 5 times... but I had HG. All day, Every Day, for 9 months sickness... and it sucked!

And I am not going to pretend for anyone that it was magical to be hung over the toilet with my ribs caning while I am trying to throw up absolutely nothing every morning because I made a baby.


When someone is at university and their work load is crippling, they are never getting any sleep and are losing their mind because they havent had the time to study for x test because they have been studying for Y test - no one ever says to them "Well, you wanted to become a doctor" or "Look on the bright side, when its all over you will have a bouncing new doctors degree".

Just because the destination is worth the trip, doesn't mean the journey didn't suck.