hang on to your special news as long as you can Oscar. thats my advice anyway. its a very special time for you and your partner. once the word is out its like you become public property.

also i have had 2 m/c's. the first one everyone new about. we told everyone at 12 weeks and i m/c at 13 weeks. PLEASE dont freak, thats not why im telling you this, it was a very rare thing. but what happened is that word was just getting around that i was pg and everyone started congratulating me and i had lost the bub already. it was really hard to tell people thanks... but i lost the baby....

the second one i lost at 7 weeks and no one new. being very private myself, i found it much easier this way.

hope this hasnt sounded too negative or depressing. just my opinion....