I agree Corelly, I don't think they will ask who was 1st anyway.

We haven't thought of who we would tell 1st, when it came to the pregnancy announcement we saw all the grand parents within an week of each other so we told them when we saw them. With the BA we haven't really thought about who yet? Because my parents will be the last to see bubs in the flesh (they live interstate) I think we will call them 1st than dh mum (1st grand child for her) then dh's dad cause we know they wont care if they are last (not into that kind of favorites crap) and they will prob see bubs 1st. We are also not telling anyone until we are good and ready, even if that's a week after the birth lol