babies and weddings both tend to eventuate in pruning the friendship tree - they bring a whole range of new problems and emotions into the relationship (insecurity, jealousy, envy, resentment, guilt) which neither party may have ever thought would become an issue. all you can do is try to salvage a good relationship by having a good heart to heart oralternatively cutting the strings loose and trying to move on with as little resentment as possible.
Yep so called friend of mine kicked me out of her wedding cos she figured I would still be too fat to fit in a bridesmaid dress 8 months after giving birth. She comes up with the comment the other day that all of her friend and her are having babies around the same time now so they will be little playmates. She implied that Im not well come cos my kids will be too old and Im not one of her "friends" anymore. She is a wonderful piece of work this one.
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