Yep so called friend of mine kicked me out of her wedding cos she figured I would still be too fat to fit in a bridesmaid dress 8 months after giving birth. She comes up with the comment the other day that all of her friend and her are having babies around the same time now so they will be little playmates. She implied that Im not well come cos my kids will be too old and Im not one of her "friends" anymore. She is a wonderful piece of work this one.