Hello,
I hope that I dont offend anyone with this post, cause it is not ment to in any way. But I'm wondering if anyone else feels cheated with their pg after 1. through having to get pg through ART, and 2. by the added stress it seems to create with our pg?

Where am I coming from? Pls dont get me wrong, I'm so happy that we are pg and looking forward to our little one arriving, but I feel that we are missing out on all the spontanious (sp) happiness that may people experience when they become pg - instead i find myself stressing till the next scan, and dwelling on all that can go wrong, rather than the fact that it prob will be all ok, and that this wonderful event is happening for us. I guess for me this is compounded by the thought that for medical reasons we will prob have a CS for the birth - yet another medical intervention required for us to do what 'should' be natural - and also the fact that to keep this baby going is requiring on going medical intervention and treatment.

I dont want to sound ungrateful but is this a normal feeling?
FG