I too have been thinking of going to a pyschic - I want to know if we are wasting our time & energy. This is irrational and completely out of character for me - which is why
I totally get wanting to go. But of course, if I went & heard something I didn't want to hear, I'd then have to come back to this thread and tell myself they could be wrong! and if they told me what I want to hear, I'd remember this thread and think - well, what does the pyschic know! So the whole thing would be pointless.