Hi,

Got a silly question. DH and I have been TTC for many years (including 1 year with IVF). We got our 1st unsuccessful pg in July this year. I think DH blames himself for the fact that we DTD during the first few weeks of pg that is the reason why we lost the baby. My feelings is that DTD should not affect the baby if it had implanted corrrectly in the first place or it was indeed a healthy bub. Anyway, just recently we got our BFP and since the day of embie transfer DH has stayed clear away.. not that I am keen on it or anything.. I don't want to spend 9 months of my pg without any intimacy with my DH.

So here's the question, does DTD really affect pregnancy? I had a pretty sexy dream this afternoon during my nap in which I think I might have had an orgasm. Will it have an impact on my bub? God I feel stupid for asking such questions.