HI Kahlan,

You have to do what feels right for you! Personally, after 2 mc's, I wanted to wait to the 12 week mark. Well, we got to 11 weeks but I felt much better in waiting (for both the mc's, even though they werent caused by DTD the bleeding started after DTD so it was more of a mental thing).

MY whole preg I have had orgasmic dreams, sometimes its so strong it wakes me up! As you can see, my ticker is still moving along nicely

So congratulations, good luck and dont stress! GO with the flow, go what feels is best for you and soon enough you will be popping in with a birth announcement!