Help!? HCG levels

[Clairebear]

Hi Girls,
Am totally devastated to report that there was no little heartbeat to be found on my scan yesterday. I know that you will understand only too well what i'm going through. This has probably been the most difficult time of my life......3 weeks ago we were picking names for twins and now nothing.
I feel real despair because we have nothing left.....and then hope that maybe we will find another donor or ours might go again??? Big thing to ask of someone....I have no idea how much she has to endure to get those precious eggs.
I am now waiting to MC,they've told me it won't be good and i'm scared...I normally suffer at the best of times. Have a session with councillor 2moro at clinic so hopefully that will help.

Scooby,hope it comes and goes fast for you love without too much pain and sadness......be strong and positive for the next time!!! :hugs:

Betty, I hope and pray that your bleeding has stopped and all is moving along nicely.Your levels sound excellent!

Talk to you guys soon,
Hugs,
Claire

[bettyboop]

clair sending you a big hug , such a sad time for you both, just cry lots and let it out and take one day at a time.

[scooby]

Hi Claire
I am so so sorry and sad for you, i'm having a very sad day for many reasons and i would have loved some good news. I'm so sorry. I was worried when you didnt post yesterday, but i was hoping you were celebrating. I actually talked to my Obg a few monthes ago about donating eggs after and if ever i have #2, he said it is so difficult to get donors because of the new laws, but i would have no problem with that and i would be more than willing to share they really need to get some public awareness of how difficult it is to get egg donors. I realise the process is quite involved but really if people are already having fertility treatment theyre most of the way there already. Did it take long to get them this time, do you go ona waiting list ? Oh big giant :hugs: claire, take care of yourself, it is such a hard time and i really hope you dont have another long wait to MC, i have for the future for both of us. In the meantime get lots of hugs, rest, love and support to get through this horrid time. Know that i'm here if you need anything. I wish it had worked out for one of us. lots of love Scooby.:hugs:

[onthefly]

Claire - just posting again to say how sorry I am. I feel sad too and was really hoping you had good news.
Like Scooby, we're planning to donate too - eggs and/or embryos. Just not at the moment though. I wish you the best and good luck with your TTC journey - I really hope it's not all over for you.
Scooby and Betty - I hope you guys are doing well too