well girls my work here is done. made murph cry on her berfday.
any1 else want 2 add me to their friend's list. i'm a doozy!

seriously tho murph, for my book. you are brave and you are giving your girl a whole new element that her life otherwise wouldn't have! and you'd be crazy not to try! you already know what to expect re the anasethtic and how she'll react so taht's covered. Now you just need a good support person to keep you and DH grounded and occupied for the 5 hrs! AND remember if the clock hits exactly 5 hrs and there's no doc showing up at the door DON'T FREAK OUT. or at least think of me saying "now don't worry, they'll come and tell you if something is wrong.

oh my dear, sending you a birthday hug (followed by a swift finger to the ribs to get a giggle after tears).

Oh and you know you can vent/talk/whinge/whine/insulate yourself here. Pretty sure only I will make a sarcastic joke at your expense

ox