Parenting after LT TTC #4

[TaRhLi.]

Ditto, 6 weeks is the killer week. If you go back to my older posts around this time I was literally going insane. I even had a 10 hour screaming rage one of the days with nothing I could do. I know it's hard and I also had know one else I could rely on, only DH who was at work, but I look at my happy little girl now and can't believe it is the same person.

All the mum's at Mothers Group who have little babies, I now give them warning of the 6 week horrors. It seems every baby goes through it no matter what they are like. Damn those Wonder Weeks. Luckily for us we are not due for another one until 26 weeks (5 weeks to go) and Tara seems to handle them a bit better now she is older.

Yay, for public holidays. Daddy is home for an extra day to spend more time with Tara which means I get some time for myself. Although can't complain too much as they are both still sleeping... Oh, some extra photo's of Tara...Kelly Dishot's Photos - Tara February 2010 | Facebook
You can see how she likes to go to sleep, with both hands over her eyes and man what big thighs she has .

[barney]

aww kelly shes just beautiful hun and oh yeh very chubby ,but gee i love chubby she has the most beautiful eyes.

poppy thanks for sharing your pics to hun what a cutie pie you have there.

afm.. just went to baby nurse to have my girl weiged and my oh my shes now 11pds 5 oz and not even 7 weeks old yet lol..considering she was a 36 weeker and only 6pd 10 oz born id say she going ok ,shes goona have thighs like TARA KEL LOL..
hope your all ahving a nice day so far ,dh has just gone to get us a nice hamburger for lunch im starving.
oh and im soooo happy today as my girl went to bed at 10.30pm last night woke at 4.30 then again at 8.30 yay for sleep

[butterfly_warrior]

Hmmm... Have to say that we missed the 6 week horrors. But with a premmie bub, everything, particularly in the early days, tended to happen on a slightly different timetable to normal. Ok, you can all hate me now. Just remember - this too will pass.

Smithy, Miss C was a very good size for a 36 weeker. Sam was 2.48kg and a friend's 36 weeker was only 2.1kg. I can't do the conversion in my head but 6lb 10oz is a fair bit bigger than the 5.5lb that Sam was! He's grown quickly too - and gave himself a bruise by trying to walk underneath a table - smack in the middle of his forehead right above his left eye - where he has another bruise underneath the eye from tripping over on Thursday! Poor bubba!

BW

[barney]

aww poor little sam for you little man and i hope your bruises get better.
BW yeh miss c was a really good size for 36 weeks we were all very suprised when she came out and we got told her weight as i was very worried she would be like my jaymee leigh 4pd 9oz ,but no miss c was a big bubba and didnt even need the special care nursey or anything ,thank goodness hun.
i remeber when you had little sam hun and wow how time flys hes over 1 year old now dear little man
and i totally agree on the premmie bubs my jayme was the easiest baby ive ever had ,no problem at all we even used to have to wake her for feeds as a matter a fact had to wake her for everything lol..

[butterfly_warrior]

Yup, we spent a lot of time waking Sam for feeds... Not that I'm in a hurry to do the prem baby thing again, but he was really cruisey as a baby. Still is now as a toddler too. I think sometimes you can get lucky!

Not so lucky with neighbours unfortunately - grrrrrr!

BW

[Neptune]

Hi girls

Supposed to be studying while Adam sleeping, but just sneaking on here to say hi!

Poppy, Kelly, photos are great!Cute little poppets.

Smithy, I've just had a look at your site and little C is gorgoeus!

BW - what's up with your neighbors? Do tell love

[TaRhLi.]

Hi all

Just wanting to vent, DH is so dumb ggrrr. I left Tara with him for an 2 hours to go grocery shopping and told him she might be need to have another sleep and she will probably need feeding at around 2.30pm.

I get home at 2.30pm only to be told that she has been crying and upset for the whole time I was away and she was even sobbing, poor poppet. I was told she wouldn't go to sleep and just screamed when put down... so asked "have you fed her" to be told "you said she wasn't due to get fed until 2.30pm". If she is hungry then feed her, because I said 2.30pm this became the time she was to be fed whether she screamed or not. I think she was just so happy to see me and once she had a bit of her bottle she perked up a bit for me and once all finished she literally crashed (who could blame her). I just wish that when DH is at home he would pay some more attention to her and her needs, instead of using me as the "what's wrong with her" person. I dread to think what he would be like if I left then together for a whole day as he uses my "guide times" as gospel.

Once I got home he seemed to flee up to his shed, more out of relief that I was home and would look after Tara again. Do men ever get the instinct of what is needed???

[butterfly_warrior]

We've just found ourselves with some noisy neighbours. About three weeks ago some people moved in over the back fence - DH has had a look and says it looks like 2-3 young blokes. They have a stereo with an amazing sub - and absolutely no respect or consideration for anyone else in the neighbourhood. For the first week we were subjected to doof doof from 4:30 in the afternoon through to 11pm at night. And it hasn't got any better since. Over the weekend we ended up calling the police 4 times in 3 days - but I doubt they are really taking it seriously (the neighbours or the police). We're starting some things through the council, but meanwhile I sit at home with constant headaches due to the noise and the fact that just hearing doof doof makes me extremely agitated and stressed. So I'm getting no school work done at all. I'm sitting here with all the windows closed and the air conditioner turned on and my own stereo turned up really loud in an attempt to completely mask it... Unfortunately, Sam's not going to sleep because of it so I'm still not getting any work done and all my old documents from the pre-Sam days have disappeared from the school server... I burned them to a disk as I kind of expected it - but as we moved, I can't find the disk! I'm so screwed....

BW

[barney]

Not so lucky with neighbours unfortunately - grrrrrr!

BW

oh wow hun funny you should say this about neighbours we are having so much trouble with ours too its just not funny any more ,dh and i have just said as of tomorrow we will be trying to ring the housing comision to dob ours in .
as we rent privatly ( a beautiful home too and pay big rent) this b***ch next door just never shuts up screaming ,yelling,swearing,and every time she does miss c wakes up like shes scared im SOsick of this women if you want to call her that .
they are thie biggest drug addicts,cars come and go all day everyday all they do is fight over money and drugs "WERS MY VALIUM WERES MY CERAPAX WERES MY BONGS AND SO ON " hubby who have slept with the language it just gross they threaten to kill each other all the time.THEN you have her 3 grown drug addict kids coming around doing the same thing then there all fighting over drugs and money
i just want to moove house girls but im so tired and exausted as you all know its a big job with a new born baby then its the money to get another house grrrrrrrrr i dont want to call the ploice as they will smash my house and give me grief all the time im so over this,midnight the other night they started yelling and screaming OMG but if its not then going off its there bloddy dogs barking all the time..oh well from tomorrow ill be calling and seeing what i can do hopefully if what i over heard the other day while they were yelling and fighting they are $1450 behind in rent so maybe they go soon anyway but i guess not as they always seem to get away with things like this .

oh well thats my b***ch for the day im just so upset and agry rite now as she hasnt shut her big mouth all day i feel like just jumping the fence and punching her myself but then ill have the cops on my door

[butterfly_warrior]

Smithy, you have my sympathies. Ours is just music, and as much as it gives me a really intense physical reaction (there's nothing worse than just hearing the bass and not the rest of it!) as we used to live near a leagues club and had similar until about 3am every Friday and Saturday night - got that fixed through the liquor licensing board... having to deal with the yelling and that sort of language day in day out - urgh!

We can't move - just can't afford it and getting a rental in Sydney at the moment is near to impossible - the demand is just so high at the moment!

BW