BW and Smithy huge to you both. Home is sacred, and you shouldn't have to put up with that. But that's easier said than done. I am a great believer in 'what goes around comes around' and I'm sure these people will get theirs one day, but I hope it's soon for your sake.

KellyD - vent away. That is annoying, and I sympathise because DH jsut does what he thinks is right when I'm not here (he's never right and doesn't listen to me!) and I come home to a screaming baby when Adam is not really a screamer....DH just mis-reads the signs. On the up side, I feel grateful that he can mind Adam while I go an get things done, so I'm now trying not to whinge too much, but I know how you feel love. I now jsut try and be very careful in how I ask him to do things ie. try and make out it's his idea!