airline, honey, i can't even begin to imagine how you are feeling atm love but please know i'm sending you lots of support and hugs and positive vibes. I really hope it is simply a case of wrong dates and you get some better news soon. Be kind to yourself and your DH ...
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thanks for you support and thoughts grub and smithy. DH smsd me earlier said he was p**** off and frustrated that nothing is ever simple in this whole 'thing' with us. I said I didn't feel like that, just sad. With it being IVF there's no mistaking the dates... so it's either slow developing...or no longer with us. Last time the levels rose too slowly and we never got to the scan stage....I'm so worried that it's gonna leave us too.
Anyway, sorry to bring people down, not my intention. I'll let you know when we get anymore news - another waiting game.
oh hun this road were all on is so bloody hard sometimes and far from easy ,the stress is over welming and sometimes i think it must be so hard for our dh to watch us go through the hurt as theres nothing they can do in the past i have felt so sorry for my dh watching me only get 2 eggs or ****ty embies his wached me cry for hours, i dont know i think they get angry and upset for us more than anything im feeling it for you both rite now thats for sure as i no just what your both going through and i will be that everything works out hun and do not feel bad about coming in here and talking you wont bring us down hun were here for you any time ok .luv smithy big hugs for you sweety and take it easy,stay calm and stick together youll get ther my friend im sure xoxo
I am not enjoying being back at work ... at all, and my boss has just left. So I've been doing lots of surfing and research... (happy days). Just had a look at your pics Smithy and I am really worried now. My belly is bigger at 6 weeks than yours was at 12!! I'm sooo chunky! I got down from 77kg to 62 for my wedding, promptly gained it all, lost it all again for our wedding anniversary (well, back to 65 anyway ). Then with the drugs, the pregnancy, the miscarriage, the drugs and now the sorest boobs in Christendom (i.e. no exercise for 5 months other than walking and swimming) means I am 70kgs again, and it's all on my belly. I was rubbing my belly the other day (it was contentedly full of a whole portion of red thai curry with veg and tofu)(and lots of rice) and DH pointed out that I looked about 30 weeks.
my work trousers don't fit me today.... oh dear. Can't wait to get home and put something elasticated on.....
Oh Airline you poor thing! Sending lots of up there for you. Perhaps it was just a late implanter? Oh I do hope there is some sort of reasonable explanation for this, I really do.
LM: Don't stress too much hun, I was the same. Check out my pics! (Yes Ms Smithy, I've updated!) I popped out at 7 1/2 weeks. Now I look about 7 months Every time someone asks how far I am and I tell them I get the looks of shock and the "OMG how many are you having?". Except for one lovely lady in Coles the other day that told me I look small for 20 weeks, bless her.
On another little sad note, that friend of mine that I was talking about recently, the one that was going for her 5th round? Well she messaged me today, it looks like AF arrived yesterday, they still have her BT tomorrow but she's pretty down about it. I just don't understand how they don't take. But thanks to those who sent little prayers & stickyvibes.
Hey can anyone tell me, where can I post a little rant I have to make, where it will be private? I have something I want to get off my chest but "the forums have eyes" and there's certain people I don't want to read what I have to say (noone in this thread thankfully!). I know these people search the forums & read my posts and I don't want it available in general nor by searching my profile for "Find all posts by BOC". Is the Platinum section safe?
Anyway hope you all have a good rest of the evening!
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aww airline im very sorry that happend today hun ,take it one day at a time darlin .dont give up just yet though ok xoxoxo
that everything works out hun and do not feel bad about coming in here and talking you wont bring us down hun were here for you any time ok .luv smithy big hugs for you sweety and take it easy,stay calm and stick together youll get ther my friend im sure xoxo
). Then with the drugs, the pregnancy, the miscarriage, the drugs and now the sorest boobs in Christendom (i.e. no exercise for 5 months other than walking and swimming) means I am 70kgs again, and it's all on my belly. I was rubbing my belly the other day (it was contentedly full of a whole portion of red thai curry with veg and tofu)(and lots of rice) and DH pointed out that I looked about 30 weeks.
Every time someone asks how far I am and I tell them I get the looks of shock and the "OMG how many are you having?". Except for one lovely lady in Coles the other day that told me I look small for 20 weeks, bless her.
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