oh hun this road were all on is so bloody hard sometimes and far from easy ,the stress is over welming and sometimes i think it must be so hard for our dh to watch us go through the hurt as theres nothing they can do in the past i have felt so sorry for my dh watching me only get 2 eggs or ****ty embies his wached me cry for hours, i dont know i think they get angry and upset for us more than anything im feeling it for you both rite now thats for sure as i no just what your both going through and i will be that everything works out hun and do not feel bad about coming in here and talking you wont bring us down hun were here for you any time ok .luv smithy big hugs for you sweety and take it easy,stay calm and stick together youll get ther my friend im sure xoxo