Honeybee - would you like this moved to Parenting after LTTTC. Seeing as you are after experiences from those how are already Parents.

I can't help you myself, although i did BF DS1 and began to wean him from 12 months just so i could do IVF again. I did fall pg on my first cycle of IVF after DS1 and there is now a 21 month gap. Very different i'm sure.