You know what blows me? Accidental pregnancies while on contraception. Seriously, knowing how hard it is to fall pregnant when trying... I just... head wall. Your feelings are totally normal, you have been down a life altering path and it doesn't go away when we have kids.
Utterly! And then some of them have that attitude of "well I guess we'll HAVE to keep it" Or saying something like we're keeping it and tone implies that it's a massive burden. People don't realise what a vlessing it would be to some people if they could just "fall pregnant" (how the **** do you "fall" pregnant anyway? Did you trip and the doodle was just there?)

I think a bit of jealousy is normal MammaSue! GL with TTC too