Hi all
I am so glad to read these positive posts.
I had a m/c 2 weeks ago, 9 weeks pregnant but lost it at 5 weeks.
I was completely devastated of course and it has made me incredibly nervous to try to fall again in case it happens again. It also took us 5 months to fall in the first place.
Reading all these messages has lifted my spirits!
Thank you!
Just wanted to wish all the pg girls all the very best.. it's such a terrifying experience being pg after a loss. I have just had my third m/c which resulted in a D&C (as did all of my m/c). The first two.. we were told to wait a few cycles before trying again and you know what.. it didn't help!! This time, we have a new OB who is just brilliant and she told us there's no reason at all to wait. The only reason some doctors tell you to wait at least one cycle is for dating reasons.. but ultrasounds are sooo good these days that they'll tell you the dates anyway.. and doctors always go off the u/s dates anyway. So there you go.. our OB gave us the all clear to go for it.. basically she said as long as the bleeding has stopped, you can get back into it (so long as you're emotionally ready). We were, as we're desperate for another bub and I'm now waiting for that damn BFP again.. as terrifying as it will be. I got a BFN today but still hoping I tested too early.. although I still think it would be a miracle if it happened straight away for us.
Anyway... these threads are full of amazing, wonderful, caring women who have all experienced what we're all going through and I could not have got through it without them. I don't think any of them will ever know just how much they've helped me. It's incredible!
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