thread: Did I do this?

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  1. #1
    Registered User

    Oct 2006
    In a house, on a hill with a big fat welcome mat!
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    Did I do this?

    When I had my mc last year I went through something so emotional and I was physically and mentally a wreck. I thought that caused my mc. I was assured by both the ob at the hospital and my own ob that while not ideal this didn't cause my mc. I know that little voice in your head.
    I know it's so hard, can you do something that you find enjoyable that can take your mind into a more positive frame? Spotting is so common, I think in my bellybuddies group we nearly all had some between 5 weeks and 12 weeks.
    Crossing everything for you x

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737

    I will try to calm down, I feel so guilty. I just want DH to come home now. Thank you Joeve xx

  3. #3
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
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    Thanks Nel1574, just saw your post, hope your right. I feel sick to my stomach thinking I have done this. Can't take my mind away from this.

  4. #4
    BellyBelly Member

    Oct 2004
    Cairns QLD
    5,471

    if its brown I wouldn't think too much of it. If it was fresh then I may be concerned. Chances are you just dislodged some old mucus/blood possibly from an implant bleed?

    I know when I have neared the end of my POST natal bleeding, if I had a stressful moment of yelling etc, I always got a bit of yuk happening again.

    Stay positive, It will be ok xox

  5. #5
    Registered User

    Jul 2010
    Melbourne
    2,737

    Thank you Efjay. I don't even have anyone to call if I'm concerned because my GP is closed and I don't have an OB yet as I am only 6 weeks. My first scan is Thursday. My hands are shaking typing this I am so scared.