Amethyst I'm so sorry to hear of both your losses I don't have a history of repeat miscarriages, but found myself asking similar questions after our loss.

I had a missed miscarriage and D&C in Jan 08, and my ob recommended we wait for 2 cycles before ttc again. I was lucky that my cycles started up again like clockwork, but didn't start to ttc for a long time after that due to my own emotional reasons. However I have heard/read of many ladies who ttc straight away after a m/c or D&C, some successful and some unsuccessful.

The first time I fell pregnant, I had literally just stopped the pill and fell our first try, but sadly didn't progress past 10ish weeks. I had only been on the pill for just over a year though. Whilst no medical professionals have said so, several of the women in my family believe that a women should always wait a few months to ttc after coming off the pill, to let their body get into it's own groove.

It's is so hard to know what to do, but I hope you are holding a bubba in your arms soon.