Oh Meredith darl i don't know what to say other than I hear your pain and anguish. You will always have a shoulder to cry on here in BB and many many many understanding women. Even though I haven't been through this situation I can offer you my thoughts and prayers. Be strong sweetheart. Sometimes the only solution (that I find is helpful when I'm totally at a loss) is to emotionally just relinquish control... metaphorically throw your arms up into the air and say "ok... this is me rolling with the punches 'cos there certainly isn't anything else I can do!!!" Sometimes when i see other people doing this... accepting total defeat... occasionally there follows a ray of light and success... it's weird, it's like the universe or whatever kind of wants you to admit defeat... to be totally humbled... and, once this happens it then shows mercy.... in some form or another. I hope I haven't been too preachy...
it's always helpful to write down your pain... at the very least keep it up darl... it'll help... we'll listen *more hugs*
Last edited by Bathsheba; March 4th, 2009 at 11:05 AM.
darl i don't know what to say other than I hear your pain and anguish. You will always have a shoulder to cry on here in BB and many many many understanding women. Even though I haven't been through this situation I can offer you my thoughts and prayers. Be strong sweetheart. Sometimes the only solution (that I find is helpful when I'm totally at a loss) is to emotionally just relinquish control... metaphorically throw your arms up into the air and say "ok... this is me rolling with the punches 'cos there certainly isn't anything else I can do!!!" Sometimes when i see other people doing this... accepting total defeat... occasionally there follows a ray of light and success... it's weird, it's like the universe or whatever kind of wants you to admit defeat... to be totally humbled... and, once this happens it then shows mercy.... in some form or another. I hope I haven't been too preachy...
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