HPL - thankyou! I gave up about 7/8 weeks on Obs advice this time. One of the better things Ive done. Though previously had planned to give up between 32-36 weeks for Amelia. For the twins I was on a gradually reducing work days plan which saw me giving up at 28 weeks.

Kit - I still think of your George when my fur baby is in the highest platform of the highest tower of the cat tower. $ is not an issue for the treatment, thankgod. More risks to baby and me are the concern. tbh - I know what you mean - even now - I still wonder if DH and I will really be able to bring this bub home, but I still day dream about it and make little plans. I think those fears will only resolve when bubs is here in our arms, healthy. Then the next part of the journey starts.I am loving your DH - gold star for his care of you and his belief. Hold on to him, he's a keeper. Hope the m/s resolves soon - if your're lucky by the time of your scan ..... Its awesome but anxiety provoking. Can you remind me closer to the date?

Hiya to Elise, Mo4, possum, crumpet, Ric, TCCALC (are you in here?), and of course anyone I have unintentionally missed. Thinking of you.