Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ April 2011

[damprye]

Dory- LOL I think it was Alish that said she has a UTI, just a clod/flu here, my pee is fine

Cheezel- Sorry I missed you. I hope your scan goes well tomorrow. for you and lots of

[forshelby]

Stoked - How exciting, a little boy!

Alish - Good luck with the mat. pants, and great news your heart murmur isn't serious The only other hospital able to treat clubfoot patients is Brisbane. The others on the coast are all private, or there's a public one in Tweed but they don't deal with clubfoot. I have no choice right now but to go back to the 'scene of the crime'.

WBM - I know, it's craziness.... I might speak to my GP, thanks for the suggestion. I hadn't thought of that. He was horrified when I told him the story and didn't judge me for having a sook in his office. The midwives are meant to come to my house to do the hearing test but their schedule constantly conflicts with mine, and she keeps calling me on Wednesdays to organize it at the last minute, when I have appointments that day every week and I've told her this. She also only ever can come out in the afternoon, which is why I keep trying to just go up to see her after my appointment with Axel while I'm at the hospital. But no, that would be too organized for them.

Damprye - Hope you're feeling better soon

Ferrals - OMG, I think Axel might be the same as Ella... that's it, I'm taking him to the GP asap. Thanks for the list, it really helped! I hope Ella improves really quickly.

Cheshire - I already spoke to a social worker at the hospital. Nothing really came of that. She gave me contacts for a counsellor, but I'm not looking for that. I'm ok. However, they need to be accountable for their dodgy policies. Or lack thereof.

Dory - I'll take my complaint as high as I can. We even thought about contacting the newspaper, but haven't as if it's going to get all legal we don't want to do anything to jepoardize that. Good work on the taties too.. I love roast taties. and it really is a fine art!

Cheezelmonster - I hope your m/s goes away soon... it's such a gross feeling. Good luck for your scan, I have everything crossed for you.

[Tegam]

just a clod/flu here, my pee is fine

And here i only popped online to see how your pee was Damprye

Tho can you tell me how painful a clod is? Never had one of those

[sunshine and stars]

Hello-- Friends-- I am sorry that I haven't been in communication for a long while...This is to let you know that my son, Obed ("Obie"), died on April 5th. He was a little over 2 months old. I just wanted to publicly say thank you to the group and to explain why I haven't been on-line for some time. Obed was born with a neurological brain stem disorder-- he was a beautiful baby boy, but he couldn't swallow his own saliva and he had decreased body movement. I have been reluctant to post because of the sad news and I apologize, but I don't know who has delivered their babies and who has not. I just wanted to say hello and thank you to those who have privately inquired-- and sent along prayers. I need them.

PS I haven't figured out how exactly to remove the ticker-- and I don't have the energy to do so-- I want to hold on to being a "mom" a little bit longer.

[possum magic]

Sunshine and stars: So sad for you that you have lost your precious Obie. You will always be his mum. So sad he could not stay with you. Sending you prayers. I can only imagine how tough you are doing it at the moment. Please feel ok to post if you want support.

[forshelby]

Sunshine - Fly free, little Obie.

[Mildez]

S&S I too am so sorry to hear your sad news about little Obed's passing. You will always be his mom. I can't imagine what you must be going through

[Khaleesi]

S&S i'm so sorry to hear of your news