MIldez - Gday! Went well at the physio - she said i have pelvic instability! I guess everyone would with a baby bouncing around in there! Anyway she worked on my hip and bum for a while and im feeling some relief, hopefully i will get some sleep tonight now! Thats great news that you have an option of epidural! Just good to have it as a back up! So has Murraycod had the baby?? Do we know?
Does anyone have morning sickness that comes and goes. I have been feeling really sick this past week and today around lunchtime it pretty much stopped. I only had MS with the last pregnancy and that stopped around the time the baby's heart stopped so it's making me very nervous.
Indiasmum - my nausea started at 7wks and was constant, all day! I had a meltdown when i woke up when i was 9wks and it had completely GONE! I freaked out! I was so upset that i rang my ob and he let me have a scan - needless to say bubby was fine! It stayed away for about 2days and then it came back again and stayed till 14wks! There were some other days in that time that i felt good but more vomit days than not!
Hope this helps, its such a stressful time, call your ob/midwife, that will put your mind at ease xx
It works so much better when I long in often enough to only do persies for three people at a time lol. Guess I have been too slack today but here goes.
India's Mum- Many people seem to have symptoms that come and go and every pregnancy is different. Sending sticky vibes your way though.
Mildez- It is always nice to know that we have optins
Clairesmummy- good luck lol.
T-hopes- Glad you have some relief.
Ferrals- Lol baby brain can play some pretty awesome tricks on us.
Cheshire- Hope you get to see the lil HB soon.
Alish- After my mc scare, I was never called back in to work. Hoorah on ms easing off
AFM- Feeling a lil jealous atm. My cousin who is due in August as welll, has just found out that she is expecting twins. The whole family are happy for her and celebrating her having numbers 3&4 yet they are completely opposite when it comes to me and my number two. It's like WTF, be supportive of both or none. I hate my WA family and cannot wait for my Nan to pass on so I can head over east, not that I want her dead, it's just that the only thing keeping me here is her. Maybe I should just move anyway... I would if I wasn't afraid that it would kill her *sigh*
Oh well, at least I have support from my over east family and I am happy that I am having number two.
dampyre - your family sounds very negative & you dont need that sh*t in your life!
im sick of work, i work with all men, they are worse than women! id quit but we cant afford it unless we sell the house
indias mum - my nausea comes and goes lately it just lasts for a couple of hours, rather then all day, some days im completely fine.
eh i woke up with a headache this morning i hate that!
my friend bought her baby around yesterday he is 4 months old, and sooooo gorgeous i love him so much! and he still has that gorgeous baby smell that i love!
Murrycod was due 2 weeks ago so she should of had the bub but it's possible she hasnt i sent her email last week and still no reply i will wait awhile and try again.
Mildez-I am feeling so much better now even if the placenta doesnt move anymore my risk of hemorrage should be lower as the placenta is off the cerix and more on the left just a few more cm's would be good.
Damprye-Dont worry about that side of the family when i was pregnant with Abbi no one in my family were real impressed as i already had 3 boys and it was my 2nd marriage all my sisters and brother (some step) all have 1 or 2 children and wont have anymore they all own houses and then there is me 2nd marriage and starting again and renting.
When everything started to go bad everyone was devastated that we were going to lose Abbi they all said you can try again you can have another baby and now they are all over the moon and so excited they wrap me in cotton wool as this little girl is so precious to them what a change i just thought it is great that they are so supportive now and love this bub even before she is here but at the end of the day it is my life my family and i am happy so i dont care what anyone else thinks or says if i want 4 kids i will and if i want 10 i will so they can just deal with it.
AFM-I have my OB appointment today so cross fingers good news from him on the placenta c section front.
dampyre boo to your family seeming more excited about your cousins babies not yours. I felt envious of a lady I know having twins. Everyone is so excited (its her 4th and 5th) and bending over backwards to help her. Thats all good but it pee'd me of that she was the ones having twins (she hardly has her older 3 youngest is only 12months old and in daycare full time) especially when she got pregnant with her 3rd well over a yr after I started trying for my third and now she is due to have another 2. Oh well call me the green eyed monster. I think it hurt as much as it did as now she will have 5 whilst I wanted the large family and am unlikely to have anymore now with the infertility and DH pulling the pin on our original plan.
Oh well enough doom and gloom Ferrals I hope you get excellent news about your placenta today and know how much it needs to move for a vag birth.
Ferrals - you too, hope you get some good news with your appointment.
T- Hopes - thanks sweetie - little HB is just awesome. I adore her so much... each day my love grows, and I think it can't possibly grow anymore and then it does. The good times are just so amazingly good. Sorry about your pelvic instablity. I had it, yikes it was painful. I just sucked it up but WISHED I had bought some IRC pregnancy pants. I bought their recovery pants and they helped me no end after the caesear, but I couldn't justify getting the preg pants so late in my preg. They are expensive, but the recovery pants worked an absolute treat... so if $ isn't too tight, have a think about them. I will def get some next time.....hehe, hoping that is sooner rather than later....no cycle yet, but I keep saying to myself, I could have o'ed and caught that eggie.... will be taking a hpt on the weekend though. Well done on getting to 23 weeks. yay!
India's mum - I had nausea that would come and go from 3 weeks to 12 weeks... and then it tapered off... it would come back sometimes. it's so hard in the early weeks, and especially when in your mind the m/s disappearing coincided with your loss. All I can say is, every pregnancy is different, and wish you lots of pukies/nausea and sticky vibes.
Dampyre - hugs hun... your bubba is important to us! It's so hard when you feel unsupported.. sorry your fam is stepping up. Hugs.
Kell - yikes.... rest up sweetie and if work gets too much... see if you can go on "lighter duties"... I know they don't really exist in your job, but worth a try.
Mildez - hmm sorry forgot what I wanted to say. Not long now, will have to do.
AFM - reality check. I was nauseous last night and couldn't sleep, though eventually I did out on the lounge watching tv. Hannah had a great night thankfully. I am hoping I haven't caught a bug and it's just my funny old digestive system being naughty. And before you get too excited, it didn't feel like m/s nausea, which for me has always had a distinctive feel to it which is different from digestive nausea which is different from germy/bug nausea. Who would have thought it?
Just off to check the BA's to see if Murray has posted. I haven't had a response from her either Ferrals.. I might ask Crafty is she's heard.
just a quick update....dad hasnt had a stroke or anything like that....so now its off to the nuro surgeon and see about dementia...hopefully he can take a tablet and hold it off for a little while......guess its kinda good news in a away.........
Back at home now as well and trying to sort through things with hubby....
Now its just waiting for the dreaded cs stuff and the idiot ex
Hope u ladies are well and good luck with all ur scans and pregnancies etc..
Just subscribing before I forget... nothing really happening here, exhausted and tired and oh so freaking sore in the pelvis... Hope everyone else is ok!
Thanks for your comments ladies. Feeling quite sick again now so that is a relief. Funny - I didn't get any morning sickness with the first 4 pregnancies. It's amazing how different every pregnancy is.
Damprye - sorry to hear people are not excited for you. When I was 9 weeks pregnant with the first one I lost we were OS visiting DH's Mom. I told her virtually as soon as I got off the flight and invited her to visit so she could be there at the birth. I thought she would be thrilled. All I got in response was "Oh . . ." Not once during our visit did she ask about what we were hoping for or any questions about bub. As DH's brother and wife were still struggling with IVF it was obvious that only good news from them was welcome and our news was not. I was so very hurt. I lost our baby the last day of the visit and found it very hard to except her condolences.
Dory - Just thinking about our chocolatey lunch has me drooling lol. It's so great to hear you're back on the POAS train... hehehe, that's excellent. It seems like so long ago I was dying to POAS myself. I still have all 4 of my BFP's lined up on the shelves in the bathroom, gathering dust. I used to look at them every day to remind myself I was pg... now I don't need reminding so much, lol. But I can't bear to part with them. Hoping you're UTD again really soon, and little Hannah can have an earthside sibling. Hmmm.... I won't deny it, your description of the newborn weeks being 'brutal' made me a little bit lol.
Angelfish - I know, getting really close now! It could be any old day now I hope Honor is doing better on her new formula.
Kellie - Whee! The countdown is definitely on at my house lol.
Kit - Wow, Sam is over a month old already?! It's a pity you aren't in brissie/gc, would be so nice to catch up.
Ferrals - I feel your pain, hun....... the heat is really making it hard to do anything. Come on, Ella, out you come! (cutest name ever btw)
India's Mum - Hehe, that's always the way, isn't it? Just when you think the coast is clear, you're hugging the toilet bowl again.
T-Hopes - Yum! Enjoy your chocolatey feast hehe. I miss maternity clothes shopping so much! I find now that I'm so big there just isn't any point in buying any more clothes to wear for a couple of weeks.... I'm just cramming myself into my too tight shirts LOL. Oh and buying the baby gear.. so exciting. Now I'm just sitting here waiting for something to happen, DYING to use all my cute baby stuff. I need a little bum to put that powder on, dammit! LOL. Enjoy this time, I found it the best part of the whole pg.
Clairesmummy - I am so so sorry hun............ this just breaks my heart. I don't know what else to say... it's not fair! I so thought this was going to be your happily ever after. PM me anytime if you want to talk.
Reet - I feel like I might explode, not POP lol. Full term today, yes... pretty nerve wracking actually! My weird spots disappeared, so I don't know what it was all about. My next drs appt is tomorrow morning. I can't believe you mowed the bloody lawn at 30wks pg... LOL. Bad Reet, Bad! I've had the same thoughts, worrying now about whether bubby will be healthy etc. I think that's the thing though............ once they're born we aren't going to stop worrying. It'll just progress to something else. Like worrying about whether or not they ate their packed lunch at school, hehe. It's a mother's job to worry. Everything will be fine I'm sure. Surely there would be some sign on U/S that there might be an issue by this stage.. and man you've had a lot of U/S.... lol. Try not to worry too much.
Tegam - Well said, hun..... it's such an empty sinking feeling being given that kind of news.
Iona - Hi Hun, how are things going with you??
Melster - Good luck with your u/s!
Kellie - Enjoy the aircon at work today, hehehe.
AFM - Had a horrible night last night, this one is so long it belongs in the boo-hoo room. *sigh* f@#$% men.
Clairesmummy - ah my love, i am so truly sorry to hear of the loss of your little angel... it is a cruel world that we live in and it makes no sense as to why this happened to you and your family. Please look after that beautiful heart of yours and let yourself cry all you need to. It is such a gut wrenching time, sadly we have all been in similar situations and can understand some of the emotions you are going through, please know we are all here for you as you work through your grief. Take care darlin xx
everything went well.........the baby was movin like crazy......and everythings looking good at this stage and now we go see the ob............... we got her to right the sex on a piece of paper..and i couldnt help myself after trying to be so strong
and it is a .........................................
girl.......
but she said she cant be a hundred percent because it was hard to see apparently....
poor hubby...wonder if he is tiny tad dissapointed....thats 1 boy and 5 girls.........i didnt mind either way.....but were not telling anyone.....just telling everyone its a surprise.....and not telling names
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I hope Honor is doing better on her new formula.
Try not to worry too much.
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