thread: Pregnancy after Miscarriage or Loss ~ February 2011

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    Apr 2009
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    dampyre boo to your family seeming more excited about your cousins babies not yours. I felt envious of a lady I know having twins. Everyone is so excited (its her 4th and 5th) and bending over backwards to help her. Thats all good but it pee'd me of that she was the ones having twins (she hardly has her older 3 youngest is only 12months old and in daycare full time) especially when she got pregnant with her 3rd well over a yr after I started trying for my third and now she is due to have another 2. Oh well call me the green eyed monster. I think it hurt as much as it did as now she will have 5 whilst I wanted the large family and am unlikely to have anymore now with the infertility and DH pulling the pin on our original plan.

    Oh well enough doom and gloom Ferrals I hope you get excellent news about your placenta today and know how much it needs to move for a vag birth.

    Of to drop DD to school BBL!

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    Aug 2009
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    Cheshire - thinking of you today with your scan.

    Ferrals - you too, hope you get some good news with your appointment.

    T- Hopes - thanks sweetie - little HB is just awesome. I adore her so much... each day my love grows, and I think it can't possibly grow anymore and then it does. The good times are just so amazingly good. Sorry about your pelvic instablity. I had it, yikes it was painful. I just sucked it up but WISHED I had bought some IRC pregnancy pants. I bought their recovery pants and they helped me no end after the caesear, but I couldn't justify getting the preg pants so late in my preg. They are expensive, but the recovery pants worked an absolute treat... so if $ isn't too tight, have a think about them. I will def get some next time.....hehe, hoping that is sooner rather than later....no cycle yet, but I keep saying to myself, I could have o'ed and caught that eggie.... will be taking a hpt on the weekend though. Well done on getting to 23 weeks. yay!

    India's mum - I had nausea that would come and go from 3 weeks to 12 weeks... and then it tapered off... it would come back sometimes. it's so hard in the early weeks, and especially when in your mind the m/s disappearing coincided with your loss. All I can say is, every pregnancy is different, and wish you lots of pukies/nausea and sticky vibes.

    Dampyre - hugs hun... your bubba is important to us! It's so hard when you feel unsupported.. sorry your fam is stepping up. Hugs.

    Kell - yikes.... rest up sweetie and if work gets too much... see if you can go on "lighter duties"... I know they don't really exist in your job, but worth a try.

    Mildez - hmm sorry forgot what I wanted to say. Not long now, will have to do.

    AFM - reality check. I was nauseous last night and couldn't sleep, though eventually I did out on the lounge watching tv. Hannah had a great night thankfully. I am hoping I haven't caught a bug and it's just my funny old digestive system being naughty. And before you get too excited, it didn't feel like m/s nausea, which for me has always had a distinctive feel to it which is different from digestive nausea which is different from germy/bug nausea. Who would have thought it?

    Just off to check the BA's to see if Murray has posted. I haven't had a response from her either Ferrals.. I might ask Crafty is she's heard.