Dory - As usual you've made me feel 100% better with your awesome advice. I think you're right, the only person I can control is myself and how I react. DP and I were talking about it, and on the up side she'll be on MY turf for once. Things should be mighty different when I'm calling the shots. She's never been to see me in my element (Or bothered to meet my DP) living my life as an independant adult the entire 8 years I've been 'a big girl' so maybe she'll have a few realisations while she's here. Also, I heard she might be bringing her sister (my only Aunty who I ADORE) so I would hate to miss out on that. Thanks again for making so much sense, I feel very zen now lol. Oh and about the list... EEEEEEP I am so close to the top hehehe. Exciting!!!!!

Melster - Also great advice and something I've been considering. She doesn't take any kind of criticism with even so much as a hint of grace, so that's pretty much out. And I think I really would regret it if I didn't just suck it up and hope for the best. At the very least bubby deserves to meet his/her Grandma even if it is only once. Sorry about your cold, that sucks! It won't be long now till you feel bubby move, especially since you know what you're looking for.