MsKara I think I was posting at the same time. It took me ages to write my post because of my stupid tears. Try not to stress about not having a scan until 19weeks. If you see your Dr/Midwife after 12weeks they will be able to feel the fundus above the pelvic brim and hear your little bubbas HB. I can't wait til then either although I wont be able to see it hearing it will be reassuring also. Can you have the NT scan just to see bub? I know heaps of ladies that do it just so they can have a squizzy. Thats part of the reason I will have it although I would doubt I would do anything about the results if they were not what we are expecting.