Thanks girls you are all my life lines.

Tegam-words of wisdom now if only i can put them into action.
I do like the rock idea lol.

Angelfish-woohoo! on bubs moving.

Dory-awww not long and you will be holding you sweet tiny bundle in your arms.

Milly-they only saw one baby but the doc didnt really look he just did a quick scan for a HB and dating and sent us on our way i hope there is only one healthy one in there.
There has been plenty of prego porn in my house but nothing extrodinary to post about lol not yet anyway.
And so close for you a name will come to you when you look into your babies eyes.

Hope.positive.love-what a lovely thing your friend did.

Jennajayen-welcome there a a lot of us that have very real concerns with our pregnancies so you are not alone there.

Mum22-welcome to you also looking forward to get to know you and jennajayen.

AFM-I have read what everyone has said you are all so good to me complaining and worrying all the time.
I was sitting at work going over in my mind what the geneticist said to me the last time i spoke to him you have a 3 in 4 chance that this baby will be normal than it hit home we had a 3 in 4 chance that Abbi would have been normal and she wasnt and then we had a 3 in 4 chance that our PDG IVF embryo would have tested normal and it didnt WTF!
With the odd's suposedly in our favour 75% for a good outcome why is it we were unlucky twice so i got four 5 cent pieces and put a dot of liquid paper on one of them and turned them over so i couldnt see it and mixed them around the one with the dot was a sick baby and the other 3 were normal babies then i went about mixing them around and picking one each time i picked a healthy one out of 10 goes i only picked the one with the dot once so when you have 3 chances out of 4 to get a healthy one how is it we got the bad one twice in real life is our bad gene so strong it just over powers the good ones i am so stressed the odds are on our side but so far have failed us twice will it be 3rd time lucky.
God what i would give for some answers
Sadly 1:4 pregnancies will end in MC the odds dont work that if you have had three MC all will be ok Math and statistic suck more now days than they did in high school hey!

I know what you mean about 1:4 but for you its more.... I had a 1:200000 chance of having my ectopic! Gee woofreakinghoo, do i win something. What a dumb thing to say to someone! I have had 5pregnancies so it was 1:5 for me. I have had 6 pregnancies now and 2 have ended badly and this one isnt earthside so thats 1:3! I HATE being labled and i HATE odds. You can go stick them up your bum Dr!

Anyway a bit of a pointless rant

Big hugs to you and hello to all the new girls!