ferrals: I've been lurking but I really had to post. It's really ok to freak out, but you have to remember that, like the coin flipping, there is just a 25% chance that things won't be ok. I have a disease in my wrist that only affects 1 in 250 000 people (usually to gymnasts and tradies that use jackhammers etc), yet it happened to me for no particular reason. No one can explain why and no one knows why my left wrist is perfectly fine either but it's been 10yrs and I have no indication of any issues with it. Sometimes things just happen, and we'll never know why, but we can't let the fear of it happening again control us. Like Kit said, it's a FEAR not a certainty. We can only deal with what has happened, and so far you have a perfectly healthy baby that, to all indications, is growing very well.

Wow... I should really swallow my own pill! I've reading all the posts but lurking because even though everything is going well I still haven't made it past 10 weeks and I'm still scared I will lose this one as well.