oh good luck thopes....pitty it wasnt this morning so u didnt have all day to think about it....i really wish u all the best and give ur new little bub a big cuddle from me.....cant wait to hear.....i will be checing constantly later......

Jessica.......wow..congratulations for tomorrow the..hopefully he wont get cold feet then...keep us posted and let us know if u need to chat

angelfish.......oh no believe me i am one that defiantly.....defiantly understands........its really hard to understand unless ur actually in these situations with these kids ands ex's......people tend to have really strong opinions about it...but unless u have to live day to day with it it can be a completely different story......i get judged all the time by what i say and do with the skids......but unless its them who have been raising these 4 skids for seven yrs and putting up with a pyscotic trouble making ex then really they need to be more understanding....its very hard raising children that are not ur own....and then dealing with hubbys views on top...its a very tricky situation

pm and alish....thanks....yes it is a very complicated..long winded..messy situation.........dont think anyone can really help me..guess i just gotta work it out for myself

atm....i didnt get outa bed yesterday and having trouble today....with the weather...and me being tired and body tired i just cant be bothered....guess its getting later in the pregnancy now....betta get the present for hospital for dd and the baby to give each other so its one thing less to think about