Ferrals- Im glad u know how ur little girl is positioned! I have no idea! It cld be a head butting me, a foot kicking, a hand punching or maybe even an elbow! Who knows!! Maybe in a few more weeks ill know a bit better.. or maybe after ive had a few more kids!!
Angelfish- That sux she will get her karma.. hopefully the courts can see whos the more trustworthy one.
Tegam- How are u going other then being stinking hot?? Any signs ur bubba is on its way?? Im so happy that u have managed to prolong it this long!! It sure was touch and go there for a while!
Forshelby- Oh u must feel so loved going back to ur work imagine once u have had ur baby!! All the ppl will be loving the new born cuddles!!
And thanku so much for being so lovely.. but are u sure u want to be my emotional baggage handler?! Gosh i think i will do ur head in with it all.. im doing my own in! I know we cant blame it on ourselves.. everything does happen for a reason.. BUT ITS SO HARD NOT TOO!! We so cld have easily prevented it from happening... ive just gotta realise her time was up. A friend of mine wrote me a lovely facebook msg saying she has gone to get ready to come back as our little baby.. so lovely. Ive always called my little nala girl my angel since she was born the day i had my m/c.
Anyway enough offloading for today!! Thanks forshelby xx
T-Hopes- Thanku so much once again and thanku for telling me its ok to still be crying! I feel so silly.. like i shld definitely be moving on by now..
U know what.. i feel so bad saying this.. but i have a 13 yr old silky terrier that is pretty ready to go (sorry tillie!) she is blind, deaf and cant walk up our stairs which means every half an hour im having to go and help her.. if she were to pass away now i wld be really sad but i wld know that we had given her the best life possible (and i dont mean pass away tragically like my girl did.. i definitely cldnt bare that) i just cant understand why my little girl had to go when she had so much more living to do.. even the naughty things she wld do we wld just laugh at cos she was just so cute.. god she got away with walking on our kitchen benchtops when she was trying to get to all the potato peals in the kitchen sink (little weirdo!).. SO NAUGHTY but did we get angry?! Nope! She was super spoilt. Anyway here i go again! Sorry u are all going to be so sick of me... A very big thanku for all ur understanding xx
AFM- Feeling a little better today, still teary and that bloody lump just wont leave my throat still but im slowly accepting the fact shes gone and i am so grateful that we have so many happy memories of her. I think half of it has been that i feel like i owe it to her to be sad and spend every day in mourning.. but she was such a lively little thing i know thats not what she wld want.
I am starting to get excited about our scan tomoro!! Come on 3pm. I really hope it is a perfect scan and we get some good pics or my gosh the sonographer will cop it!!
xxx
Last edited by Reet; December 16th, 2010 at 05:16 PM.
AFM-Found out today that the fake witness in DH court case who lied in his statement is one of my work collegues who i got him into trouble a few months ago and he got a written warning over so we dont get along so has a grudge against me and DH.
And his statement is completely different to the drunk di#khead who spat in DH face so our solicitor wants us to do some detective work and try to get some proof that they are friends or at least aquaintances so then his bullcrap statement will be thrown out as false and just a vendetta against us so now the snooping begins
Oh Ferrals that sounds positive, still bloody annoying in the end if its thrown out and DH spent that long out of work and you having too when HR pregnancy! Idiots!
Reet: YAY for scan tomorrow! I know i cant believe i am 37weeks tomorrow. Last monday was the date they had set me for induction but i just said no. Now booked in for next tuesday but going to say no unless movement drops right off!
So sorry you are still up and down but i guess thats going to last a long time. I know what you mean about owing it to her to be down but then she was so happy she wouldnt want you to be sad. Just feel what you need to and dont worry about what you should be doing or feeling!
Good luck tommorow and enjoy your scan - hope you get some nice chubby 3d pics
Sorry again about your puppy
Our little man was breech on the scan - he sitting up really high too my belly is really high. all the kicks are down low so thinking he must still be head up. my DD was head down the whole preg she never flipped the other way she must have been happy that way. he better not get to comfy head up
ive been having weird preg dreams too - some not so nice and downright scary
Reet~ frist of all i just would like to send you some long distance hugs i know that still does not take the pain away but i am so sorry. And good luck on your scan
My bf ex wife does not care abotu anyoen but herself. If i tryed to talked to her she would just turn everything around on me. Also when her and my bf was married she use to be abusive towards him and use the kids as a pawn of why not to press charges. I have seen the pictures of were she bit him so badly that he had burses down his whole arm Bf still has nightmares about her. And as a man here its was hard to press charges against her. But now if the police were called he would have no say its domasitc and she would have been arrested the frist time. See were the jeliously comes in is that she has four kids all together two of his and two of her present hubby.My bf mom will go over there to see the two of her grandchildren and see that the other two needs stuff and she will buy for them even as them calling her there grandmother. But what gets me is okay when it comes to his mom okay your a nice person she is trying to wreak your sons life even more can you stop babying her and make her spend cs on what needs to be spend on
sorry for the long rant
The new court date is sent for the end of jan i hope this baby does not come before this or in the middle.
Thanks for listenig sorry i have been so self asbored latley
Hi ladies , sorry for a totally absorbed ME post but i need help.....
I haven't really been around because I'm sort of in a state of confusion about my whole pregnancy ATM. I'm definitely pregnant but I haven't told DH yet, partly because I want to pick the right time to tell him and partly to surprise him at Christmas.
most couples would be happy, falling pregnant after a miscarriage but DH has had a weird attitude lately about life in general and he has said quite a lot since the miscarriage that he doesn't want more kids, that he doesn't want anymore with me,and that he never wanted kids at all. I dont know if this is all because of his feeling towards the miscarriage or how he really feels.he married me when i was pregnant, but he didn't have to..... I would have done it alone...... But he wanted to get married at the time.....and he is a good dad when he wants to be....
And saying those things to me, whilst hurtful if they are true then I'd rather not stay married to him, because i definitely want more children, not one or two..... And now being pregnant again....
I'm thinking everyday just tell him and he will either be happy and you will have a future or he will act like the world is ending, and be ****ed off ttc actually worked , ruin the happiness for me and I will just leave.... I'm not scared to do it alone but I don't feel right telling Him, him faking happy families and staying together...possibly again, for a baby, and then further resentment when I want more children or ttc again in the future... ( he deliberately avoided me a couple of times when i said We could get pregnant in the last few months, and to be honest last month was really a fluke for us )
So I'm putting off telling him for his reaction because maybe it's not the one i want.....but maybe it will be....I don't want to upset life right before Christmas, then i though what a great christmas present, but that's only if he would be happy, if not I'll ruin Christmas supposedly for I'm and we will have a **** start to next year.... ARGH!!!! why can't he even tell I'm pregnant, I haven't brought up ttc for two weeks now and I usually pester him with baby talk everyday.........and I haven't said vie had a period, no tampons been around. if he wasn't so unattentive he would already know.....
Any advice.... I want to just tell him but every time I bring up, for example......
We could be pregnant right now.... He says I hope not
I say, do you wan a make a baby? He says let's have sex ( but no mention of actually trying )
I say I'd really like to be pregnant for Christmas.... And he doesn't even respond, he loves to ignore me
I say would you be happy to find out you were having a baby on Christmas day? Like for a present? (WTF OBVIOUS ?????) he says why is one of your Internet buddies going to do that? I suppose if they wanted a baby then.....
All signs says he doesn't want another baby
So why since my mc in September he been actively participating in trying and not using protection, to get me pregnant, and not voicing his opinions until November then keep having crazy sex all the time with me so I get pregnant if he doesn't really want that?
Anyone have a psychiatrist handy, my mil is one but i think she's the one who messed him up
Last edited by Mum2Romone; December 16th, 2010 at 10:29 PM.
she will get her karma.. hopefully the courts can see whos the more trustworthy one.
imagine once u have had ur baby!! All the ppl will be loving the new born cuddles!!
A very big thanku for all ur understanding
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