Tegam - Yay for the new car! Ok baby, all systems are go, you're free to make your way to the exit when ready.
T-Hopes - Awesome, I had no idea there were fashionable maternity jeans out there! It's way too hot here for jeans atm though.... I shudder just thinking about them. Congrats on 15 weeks!!
Melster - OMG... I'll launch into my rant at the bottom part..... first let me just say hooray for getting your contract renewed. I'm sending positive vibes your way for Thursday
AFM - I've had my moments today where I actually thought 'what have I gotten myself into having a baby'. The younger kid has been pretty manageable. Nothing too out of order, and when I get cross he listens and says sorry and does what he's asked! The older one though.... omg. I actually had to yell. I am NOT a yeller. But I yelled and the guy in the drivethru window heard me say 'frigging'. LOL. I don't know if it's just because I'm pg or what, but the older one just WON'T LISTEN and I'm sooooo sick of repeating myself. I'm getting all stressed out. No exaggeration here, I told him in excess of 20 times NOT to sit on the lounge in his wet swimming pants and wet towel, and every time he'd get out of the pool, he'd go straight to the lounge. Then when I say 'remember what I told you. Get one of those chairs and bring it over here until your pants are dry' and I get the rebuttle. 'Oh my pants aren't that wet. they won't wet the lounge. My towel is dry'. Anyway, I have to go now because they're FRIGGING arguing again, and the little one is getting a bit upset.
!@#$%^&*() give me strength. About 45 minutes until I can lock myself in my room and have a tantrum.
Ladies,
I am having a mental breakdown, yesterday DH got all the court paperwork and in it is a quote for $7500 for the drunk d#ckhead two front teeth that suposedly will need root canal therapy and capping if the pulp of the teeth die WTF!!!!! if DH loses the case OMG! this is just getting worse i broke down and burst into tears at work last night and txt DH and went off HOW COULD YOU GET US INTO THIS SITUATION! i know he didnt mean it and the drunk assulted him first and DH was just protecting himself but it has all backfired.
DH has to apply for hardship to access his super to help pay for the lawyer and help us move house and pay bills.
If he doesnt get it we are f#cked we now cant even afford to pay for a car seat if i were not pregnant i could work more but i just cant risk it with this placenta.
Sorry to rant i am going to have a few days off work and use some sick leave.
Oh Ferrals - what a f#cked up situation! Not what you guys need at all and especially right b4 Christmas!! Good idea to have a few days off! Wish i had some good advice for you but i cant even begin to imagine! Gosh i hope 2011 is a better yr for you guys! xx
Ferrals..we were in a simlar situation...well legal stuff anyways and dr bills etc....boy i know exactly how you must feel right now. Its so hard when you have no control over a situation and things are going pear shape and theres not much you can do about it....wish there was something i could say to make you feel better...you need to just concentrate on you're bub and pray and HOPE things will work out....we ended up going for hardship as well and hubby got it, so hopefully you will too and hopefully the courts will work out that this guy is lying and you're partner was defending him self...hopefully you're lawyer is really good...!!!!!
Worst case senerio maybe you could borrow/rent/buy a second hand car seat and clean it...just until you can afford you're own...
Nah you cant risk the baby...you need to look after yourself and just pray things will work out in the end
ATM...were breaking up today and have a lunch at work...so i will let uno how my scan goes tomorrow..its in the arvo...............im
Dory i cant believe HB is 3months old, how unfair is that What she like as a 3 month old??? I know 37weeks, its hard to keep saying no to induction...3 times now i have been brave, another appointment tomorrow at midday...... can i be brave again.... My hips are so sore Oh and the car is white, very boring, but DH said its too easy for me to scratch any other colour (and he is right)
Reet: Oh reet deal with it anyway you need! My belly is still small to strangers but my mum now says its the biggest she has seen me in 4 pregnancies... I feel bloody huge but really its not that big. People get a shock when i say im almost 38weeks!
Possum!! WOW thats great hun! Lets hope the needles get a little easier for you!
Thopes: 3hrs.......that shouldnt take long.....
AFM: Nieces 1st bday today. We are having the party here as my sister is up from NSW. This is the only day i have been told i am not allowed to have the baby on....so 12.01am tonight im back on baby wishing, but until then im making a russian doll cake!! Illl let you know how i go!
Reet sending you mass's of (((hugs))) I hope time heals alot of your pain loosing your little girl. Its been 18months since we lost Penny in an accident (she was 5yrs old) and I still look at photos with tears in my eyes. Don't worry about others saying your small. It really means nothing. I should send a picture of me through at 24weeks as I am tiny also and definately don't look 5.5months. I'd say at a guess 12weeks lol. Oh well I know I could end up having the biggest baby of the lot despite my tiny tummy.
I'm not around much currently going to H and back with another issue unrelated to pregnancy.
T-Hopes yeah for finishing up work for Christmas.
possum magic CONGRATULATIONS. I'm so pleased for you. I think we first met when we both lost our bubs in 09. Sending you a truck load of sticky vibes and I'll be praying its third time lucky for you. How much clexane are you taking? I hate clexane. Not that I've taken it myself but all our ladies who have had c/s are on clexane and I just cringe at the thought of giving it even after 7yrs. I feel so mean. First one down that has to be the hardest and there only going to get easier.
Tegam so close now. Hope your little one chooses its own birthday in a timely fashion so you don't have to continue to disagree over the whole induction thing.
I feel a lot better today DH and i went out yesterday and looked at hireing a capsule for 6 months and it will only cost $80 and we have laybyed an awesome carseat that is from 6 months to 7 years and the man at the fitting station said we can take as long as we need to pay it off so we will just put $10 a week on it.
As our car is only 2 years old it fits no problem.
DH faxed in the hardship paperwork i am just praying they accept it and we can have a little bit of solice until march.
And i am so thankful that i did the kids xmass presents before DH lost his job.
So lets hope things go up from here.
Reet-I feel your pain i would be heartbroken if i lost one of my fur babies.
I have been having heaps of really strong BH i just try and change position and get comfortable until they settle.
And little miss has still been moving a lot i am a little concerned that my belly hasnt grown much i am hopeing she is growing ok in there i am really uncomfortable so maybe she is just really low and hiding like everyone keeps telling me
By the way i love the bubs pic in your ticker covering its eyes so sweet.
Possum magic-i have been stalking the other threads and saw you post when you got your BFP it is great news and i look forward to following your journey.
Tegam-ooooh so close now and here we thought you would go early.
I am very small also i am 26 weeks and people keep commenting on how tiny i am i still fit into all my normal clothes just cant do up the zippers my work shirt still fits and when i tell people how far i am they all remark on my size.
But i am bigger with this bub then the others although still small and i am heavier with this bub to at 26 weeks with my 3 boys i was around 64kgs and 70kgs when they were born and this bub i have hit the 67kgs already and still have until 37-38 weeks so 11-12 weeks left.
Dory-Hannah is so cute i cant believe its been 3 months already how time flys.
Ok, going to try some persies (have been meaning to do it for days but every night when DD is asleep and I mean to do it i have fallen asleep on lounge room floor!) THanks so much everyone for the welcome!
Reet: So sorry to hear about your puppy girl. Hope you are feeling a little better each day.
Dory: So lovely to see the beautiful picture of Hannah in your ticker. I have been following your journey for a while. I'm going ok with injections. I have a gene for thrombophilia (only one not two copies but because of my history of bleeding in pg my OB thought i seemed to be 'expressing' this gene and that clexane was worth a try). I don't have a blog though: maybe that is 'Possums' (not me, possum magic?).
Tegan: I've been following this thread a bit since i left it. Can't believe you are nearly full term!
Mildez: yes, we met after losses at about the same time. Great to see you are over halfway through your pg.
Ferrals: Sorry to see things have been so tough for you lately. Glad that you had a little 'cheer' with buying the car seat.
Forshelby: Yay on your car seat too! You sound very organised! My DH knew I was going to POAS so i didn't have to try and keep my news to myself for more than...8 minutes! But that's it. Apart from you ladies (and my Dr) no one knows. I don't want to tell until i know there is something to tell. Not even immediate family until I know there's a HB (FX).
Melster: what a relief for you that your scan went well. Hope the next two weeks till the next one flies past.
Stoked: Hurrah for a good scan and measuring spot on!
Kellbell: glad your little man is tap dancing! Sympathise with you on the cold. I got one from my DD. She only had a little bit of a runny nose and I was dripping and coughing for 10 days! No fair!
Angelfish: Getting so close now. I remember you from early on in your journey. Nice to join you again.
Damprye: Another escapee from TTC thread. Yay!
AFM: I've done one week of clexane injections. That's one down, 31.5 to go. Yay! Time is dragging of course: I'm hanging out for my OB visit next week when I get to see if there is a HB. Scared of not seeing one. It doesn't help that my symptoms have been pretty mild. I had lots of cramping for about 2 weeks but it's milder and less frequent now. Pretty tired and the odd bb twinge but that's about it. I know it has nothing to do with how viable baby is but it feels better when you feel more pg i think.
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