Morning ladies,

I am finally feeling better today still have a nasty cough but it doesnt hurt to cough so that is good bub is still moving around so she has handled it.

Reet-I have seen the dopplers on ebay i want to get one just dont want to waste a lot of money when this is our last bub but i would be more at ease if i got one i might try to look around for a 2nd hand one or to borrow one.

Angelfish-step families can be hard work DH and i had a few issues with our kids when we 1st got together he was and is to soft on his daughter because she only comes every 2nd weekend he treats it like a holiday for her and she expects everything and to be taken somewhere special when it is just a normal weekend for my boys when they all get into trouble he would yell at my boys and talk normally to his daughter i put a stop to it and we went to councilling where there was a professional there to tell DH he was going about it all wrong all the kids need to be treated equal and his daughter needed to understand that this is her home to so she has chores and rules and no special treatment just because she doesnt live with us full time.
DH has improved 99% but still has little issues with the way he speaks differently to all the kids i told him my boys will end up resenting his daughter if he doesnt disipline her the same way he is working on it but it is hard they just dont see it.

AFM-I finally have my 1st midwife appointment on the 18th of november YEH!!!!! i feel like a normal pregnant person i will be 21 weeks.
I have my 18 week Drs appointment on thursday and get my refferal for my 20 week morph scan even though i have had a lot of scans it will be nice to see our girl again.