Forshelby-Yes it is the 1st kilo since i got my BFP but it is on top of the few i put with the ivf so all up i am 4 kilos heavier than i was before i lost Abbi so i suppose that is not to bad but i feel really uncomfortable i have never been this big 66kgs on a 160cm frame and my legs just don't like carrying the extra weight my feet ache at work.
And the pool idea is sooo nice they would love it.