hi emma

I know exactly how you are feeling.

We have had 2 miscarriages. The first we lost at around 4.5 weeks and found out at 7, the second we lost at 7.5 weeks and found out at almost 10 weeks. It is so so so very hard to "chill". That whole second miscarriage I was absolutely on edge. Had a scan at 7 weeks and everything was fine. At the next scan baby had not grown at all from that very first scan.

So, with the third pregnancy I just said to myself "that's it. I am not going to stress, I am going to carry on as though everything is fine, I will leave my baby alone in her little world and not intrude. No scans, no worries...... just let her grow"..... and she did !

So, yes it is so awful to try and relax and enjoy your early days of pregnancy. Honestly, just try to relax. Baby will be much more secure if you are chilled.

xoxoxox