thread: 20 Weeks & still can't feel bubs moving...

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  1. #1
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    Apr 2008
    Melbourne
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    I think DD1 was 21 weeks before I really felt her move but I had an anterior placenta and she was fine. It is worrying though! I first felt her move when we were at the movies, nice and relaxed and there was some really loud noises - I think it made her jump so maybe try doing that?

  2. #2
    Registered User

    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
    8,924

    It was about 22 weeks before i felt movements, and it was driving me crazy! There is a poll somewhere and some people didn't feel movements til around 24 weeks and everything was ok.

    I loved every movement i did get, and i think it was cos i had to wait so long. I don't know anything that helped,one day it just happened.

    hope it's not too long for you

    congrats on your scan results

  3. #3
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    Jun 2009
    In a cottage in a wood
    760

    Oh, the anticipation must be driving you crazy!!! I can empathise, I didn't feel bubs move until after 20 weeks either. For me, at first it kinda felt like a muscle twinge- you know, a bit like a flutter in the muscle? It was very soft and if I was busy, I would never feel it. I thought I'd feel it in front, but it was around the side! I first felt DS when I was at a concert- I think he liked (or hated) the music! Also, as time went on and I thought maybe it had been a while since I'd felt him, I'd have a cold drink, or something to eat and it'd wake him up and he'd let me know he was ok. Hope you feel bubs soon!

  4. #4
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    Oct 2007
    Middle Victoria
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  5. #5
    Registered User

    May 2009
    west NSW
    462

    i wouldn't stress too much, with baby #3 for me, i didnt feel baby moving properly and regularly until i was about 23 weeks. and that was baby #3!! you'd think i would have felt him earlier. it depends on where your placenta is, sometimes that can mask baby's movements until they get a bit bigger and stronger.

    all the best for your scan!

  6. #6
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    Dec 2010
    Brissy
    439

    Hey hungry,

    I totally understand I first felt my baby move at 17 weeks but even to this day it isn't a regular thing (Today she is very quiet). I read that some babies are naturally more active hence personality etc then others cos they could be chilled out bubs.

    If your scan went good then your bub maybe a chilled out lil fella or you may have different times when he moves eg: When your a sleep he is podding around in there Either way if I do get worried I either do light exercise or drink a cuppa tea which in most cases does the trick When I lay down I first lay on my side then roll onto my back for a minute and usually that helps too.

    Congrates on the lil boy too

  7. #7
    Registered User

    Nov 2009
    Vic
    1,292

    Hi there.

    I didn't feel any movement with DD until I was 24 weeks...every body, every baby and every woman is different..

  8. #8
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    Jul 2007
    melb
    8,498

    I didn't feel anything till DS1 was 26 weeks (low lying anterior placenta), DS2 was 24 weeks before I felt him move.