I never found out with my first cos i wanted the big surprise when she was born...im VERY happy i never found out.

Due to already having a DD i choose to find out with my 2nd as i really wanted a boy. It turned out a girl and i had extremely bad gender disappointment so again, glad i found out as i tried to deal with it before she was born.

Same goes for my 3rd...i wanted a boy badly. Id swayed for a boy....and i got my DS (well i hope he is still a boy...3 weeks to go)!!

For me....1st babies are a surprise...and the rest i need to know...maybe #4 i wont find out...LOL