We didn't find out with our first baby and i am so pleased i didn't as i had a long labour and i think the fact i knew i had a surprise (my baby ) at the end of all the hard work was something i really look forward to getting.

Second time around we found out at 35 weeks when i was sent for a late scan due to a huge difference in my fundal measurments and it was all hanging (excuse the pun!) there, there was no mistaking, it was a boy!!

Would i change it ? Absolutely not i am happy with the way we did things but at the end of the day it's up to you to decide...no-one else can tell you what you want to do!

Goodluck darl, i hope bubby co-operates so your able to find out what flavour your little bundle is :smile: